Freedom from the Illusion of Control

2 years ago

I was writhing in agony and utter confusion. Ten minutes earlier I’d been sitting with a cup of tea, chatting…

The Wonderful Superfluousness of Beauty

2 years ago

It was completely superfluous. During the recent Spring Arts Festival that took over Tempe, Arizona where I live, the city…

Break Your Ruts by Challenging Your Assumptions

2 years ago

I love ruts. I thrive in routines. They are comfortable. They are reliable. They make me more efficient. They are…

The Healing Power of Vulnerability

2 years ago

Admitting weakness is hard for me. I prefer to share how the personal development practices I’ve learned help me lead…

When the Inspiration Stops

2 years ago

This is not a fun season.  Last minute travel due to an unexpected family emergency. Lingering illness. Edit deadlines. Anxiety…

Creating Needed Space in Relationships

2 years ago

I was an idiot. When I was younger, I had an arrogance cloaked in humility, a certainty shrouded in religiosity.…

The Long Road of Personal Development

2 years ago

It was like finding buried treasure.  Reorganizing a spare room recently led to the unearthing of old photos and memorabilia…

The Three Lies of Identity

2 years ago

As a blogger, I often have no idea of the impact of something I write. While that can be emotionally…

The Best Birthday Gift You Can Give Yourself

2 years ago

I like to read things by people smarter than me. My friend Susan Rau Stocker is one of those people.…

An Uncomfortable Truth When Pursuing a Dream

2 years ago

The clock read 2:07 AM. I rolled over and tried to sleep, but the whirling thoughts wouldn’t stop. At 3:15,…