So when our quirky and charming guide Pong told us our next stop was a Chinese tea ceremony, I was all for it. I’m a big fan of hot tea and it sounded warm. Our group piled on the bus and headed out.
Once inside, we were seated around a low square table with a tea master. She talked about the various types of tea, their flavor profiles and health properties. But what really stood out was her demonstration of the proper way, according to Chinese tradition, to drink tea. Lifting the small, handle-free cup, she first just wet her lips with the steaming liquid and then paused, her tongue sampling the taste. After a few moments, she took a small sip and swirled it around in her mouth, holding it there, savoring the nuances of flavor before swallowing. After another pause, she drained the rest of the cup in one satisfying gulp.
Our tea master explained that this method of drinking tea puts the emphasis on being present in the moment. Of being acutely aware of where you are and what you are doing. Of truly experiencing the now.
What a contrast to how I usually drink tea. For me, it tends to be a mindless, background activity while my attention is on other things. It made me wonder how frequently that mindset describes most of my activities. How often during an average day am I unconsciously reliving the past or worrying about the future and completely missing the experience of the present, the moment, the now?
You must be completely awake in the present to enjoy the tea.
Only in the awareness of the present, can your hands feel the pleasant warmth of the cup.
Only in the present, can you savor the aroma, taste the sweetness, appreciate the delicacy.
If you are ruminating about the past, or worrying about the future, you will completely miss the experience of enjoying the cup of tea.
You will look down at the cup, and the tea will be gone.
Life is like that.
You will have missed the feel, the aroma, the delicacy and beauty of life.
It will seem to be speeding past you. The past is finished.
Learn from it and let it go.
The future is not even here yet. Plan for it, but do not waste your time worrying about it.
Worrying is worthless.
When you stop ruminating about what has already happened, when you stop worrying about what might never happen, then you will be in the present moment.
Then you will begin to experience joy in life. [1]
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[1] Thich Nhat Hanh, meditation given at Plum Village in southern France. See Evan Sutter, Solitude: How Doing Nothing Can Change the World (Tenth Street Press: 2015), 147-148. Thich Nhat Hanh provides other practices in Present Moment Wonderful Moment: Mindfulness Verses for Daily Living (Parallax Press: 2002).
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I love this - what a great way to create sacred space in every day. Thanks for the imagery, Matt!
Thanks Happy! I'm so glad it connected with you. Now go drink some tea! :)