I got a phone call from my sister the other day. We had a long, wide-ranging conversation about everything from the challenges of raising teenagers to how to have a relationship with God. Several times during the call, I suggested books that had helped me in a few of the areas we were discussing. She seemed genuinely interested in hearing about them.
With that in mind, I thought I’d use this post to share some books and websites that have helped me become a better version of myself. I hope they can be an inspiration and a catalyst for growth in your own life. Here are some of my favorites in various categories:
CAREER: The Crossroads of Should and Must by Elle Luna – an easy read that uses colorful pictures and engaging graphics to communicate concepts. This book helps you find your true passions, then goes on to show how to turn them into a career by differentiating our “should do’s” from our “must do’s”.
HABITS: Daily Rituals: How Artists Work by Mason Currey – this fascinating book is made up of short entries on the lives and daily habits of over 150 successful people from a variety of creative fields. It gave me so many useful tips on how to practically organize and live out each day for both productivity and enjoyment.
PHYSICAL: Cholesterol Clarity by Jimmy Moore – this book helped me understand the latest science on cholesterol, diet and overall heart health; kennedypm.com – a fun, engaging blog full of nutritional insight, easy recipes and beautiful photography (full disclosure – this is my daughter’s website and yes, she’s awesome 🙂 ).
SPIRITUAL: Walking With God by John Eldredge – this book helped me deepen my personal experience of God by showing how an intimate, conversational relationship with God is possible; Mere Christianity by C.S. Lewis – this classic work from a master writer provides an intellectual foundation for a belief in God and a Christian worldview.
FINANCIAL: Last Week Tonight with John Oliver – this 23 minute episode on financial planning had me laughing out loud yet was the gut punch I needed to start educating myself on finances and retirement; The Total Money Makeover by Dave Ramsey – a clear, easy to follow method for finding freedom from financial stress by one of America’s most trusted names in financial advice; Money: Master the Game by Tony Robbins – if you read Dave Ramsey and are interested in upping your financial knowledge even higher, this book is a more in depth look at investing for your future. It’s packed with interviews with the most successful investors in the world and delivered with Tony’s well known motivational style.
MENTAL: lumosity.com – a free website where you play fun, short games designed to exercise your brain, a key to warding off the mental decline that comes with advancing age; Words I Wish I Wrote by Robert Fulghum – a collection of moving, motivating, and thought provoking excerpts from many of the top writers in history that inspired Fulghum’s own classic “Everything I Need to Know I Learned in Kindergarten”. Organized by category for easy reference, this is a gem I’ve turned to again and again to shape my thinking about life and my place in it.
SERVING: volunteermatch.org – a great website that allows you to search for volunteer opportunities in your area based on your skills and interests. I’ve used it to volunteer with a wide variety of wonderful organizations.
GIVING: charitynavigator.org – this website provides a way to give to the needs of the world with confidence by ranking charitable organizations on their financial trustworthiness and effectiveness.
I’m SO grateful for the guidance and insight these writers and resources have given me. Choose one that looks interesting to you and dive in! If you do, you’ll take another step toward Becoming Yourself.
Have any favorite resources of your own that you’d like to share? I’d love to hear about them! List them in the comments below.
This is just a brief overview of 4 key areas that I pay attention to in order to have overall Temple Health (your body is a temple right?). Each could be a series of posts in themselves but for now I’ll just give the 30,000 foot view on some practices that I use to help keep me feeling good and enjoying life:
2. MODERATE EXERCISE – Note that I said moderate. If you want to train for a marathon or the Olympics, awesome. That’s not my goal. I’m just looking for a small amount of regular exercise to promote my overall health and keep me feeling good. For me it’s running. While basketball or hiking is more fun when I have the chance, running is my go to form of exercise. It’s cheap, fast and I can do it almost anywhere. I run a 1.75 mile course through my neighborhood 5 mornings a week. I’ve been doing it for over 25 years.
Again, I don’t claim to be a nutritional expert. I’m just sharing what has helped me. For better info, check out my daughter Kennedy’s awesome food and nutrition blog at
important proper rest was for my voice. So even with boisterous roommates and early classes I learned to organize my schedule to get 8 hrs a night. With a few season of life exceptions, I’ve kept that practice up ever since. It was definitely harder when our kids were little. Our son had colic as a baby and was up screaming 6 times a night for the first 3 months. My wife and I were walking zombies.