I walked into the Apple Store to buy a new laptop. With my recent job transition, I turned in my work computer and needed a replacement.
I’m a Mac fan but don’t actually know much about computers. If my laptop can quickly and reliably let me email, do word processing and get me to Netflix, I’m pretty much good to go. I don’t really care about the tech jargon.
That said, my recent purchase got me thinking more than usual about how computers operate. Even with my limited understanding, I know that there are basically two levels to a computer – what I see and interact with on the screen (the software programs) and the unseen inner workings that allows my programs to function (the operating system or OS). While I jump around from one application to the next, from Outlook, to Word, to Safari, my laptop’s operating system (macOS Sierra version 10.12.6 for those who are dying to know) is the real core of it all, the invisible heartbeat of the whole machine.
I think we’re a lot like computers. We all have a variety of surface level “applications” to our lives. Like software programs, these are the things that we and others can easily see – our careers, accomplishments, talents, relationships, etc. An engineer. A college graduate. An artist. A parent. A spouse.
These are all good and helpful labels. The problem comes when we base our identity on them. Why? Because they are all changeable. We lose our job or retire. Our accomplishments are a distant memory. Our talents fade from lack of use or are lost to injury. Friends leave town. Our spouse passes away. Our kids move out. If these are the things we base our identity on, who are we when they change?
What if instead we based our identity on our Operating System? On our True Self, who we are deep inside, that part of us that doesn’t change no matter what label we wear? For me, that’s a person created, known and loved by God. That identity is secure. It provides a strong foundation, giving me a sense of assurance and peace that, no matter what changes life throws my way, I know who I am.
What about you? Maybe God isn’t your thing. That’s okay. This question of true identity is the same for all of us. When you dig deeper, beneath the various roles you play, what do you find? What’s your unchanging OS, your True Self, that foundational identity you can always depend on? Find that and you’re on your way to Becoming Yourself.